Posted by
peripheral on Saturday, February 14, 2009 8:04:06 AM
From My Perspective - - -
Valentine’s Day is a time set
aside where expressions of Love are to be expressed and demonstrated. Most do
this by sending a card, or giving Candy, or sending a Bouquet of Flowers. As a
matter of fact, “The U.S.
Greeting Card Association estimates that approximately one billion valentines
are sent each year world-wide.” In many classrooms in our nation, younger
children exchange cards with their teachers and friends. Basically, this is
intended to be an expression of love.
Love is more than an expression. It should be
an overflow from the character and personality of one individual that affects
and impacts another. It is an inner gift that utilizes words and deeds to
demonstrate true feeling and emotion. Someone noted: “…in spite of all those
cards that are exchanged, the Valentines that really matter are the ones we
receive and give where love is unconditional, that say, No matter what- I love
you!” One of the things that occurs in a pluralistic society is the blurring of
the more meaningful gifts and allowing for something lesser as a substitute.
For instance, George Barna recently conducted a Spiritual Gifts Survey and
found the following: “…the latest study shows that just two-thirds of Christian
Americans (68%) say they have heard of spiritual gifts…” The follow-up question
asked which gifts the respondents believed they had. “The most commonly claimed
gifts were teaching (9%), service (8%) and faith (7%). Those were followed by
encouragement (4%), healing (4%), knowledge (4%), tongues (3%), leadership (2%).
The influence of the secular and pluralistic is seen in many of the respondents
(21%) who deemed their Spiritual Gift to be: “a sense of humor, singing,
health, life, happiness, patience, a job, a house, compromise, premonition,
creativity, and clairvoyance.” This is obviously a drift toward the subjective
rather than an embrace of the objective.
The Word of God is very clear in its
discussion of Spiritual Gifts and what they are: the
passages of Scripture that teach about gifts include - Romans 12: 6-8, 1
Corinthians 12, Ephesians 4: 7-13, 1 Peter 4: 10-11. When it comes to Matters
Of The Heart, I Corinthians 13:4-8 (NLT) is a passage that could and should be
personalized by each of us - - -
·
Love
is patient and kind.
·
Love
is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude.
·
Love
does not demand its own way.
·
Love
is not irritable, and it keeps no record of when it has been wronged.
·
Love
is never glad about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out.
·
Love
never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every
circumstance.
·
Love
will last forever…
It has been suggested that one insert his/her
name where “Love” appears and the reading would be: “Jack/Jill is patient and
kind; Jack/Jill is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude, Jack/Jill does not
demand his/her own way, etc.
Consider these things with me - - - How much different life
and relationships would be if we mutually embraced the words of Jesus recorded
in John 13:34-35, “So now I am
giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you
should love each other. Your love for one another will prove to the world that
you are my disciples." A secular song penned by Jackie DeShannon in 1965
reminded us from a secular viewpoint: “What
the world needs now is love, sweet love, It's the only thing that there's just
too little of…” Let us be among those whose hearts overflow with love and
compassion in our lives, families, communities, nation and world.